Online Dating

Interested in trying online dating? We certainly were. Yes, we signed up for each of the sites you see here, with the mission of helping our readers find the right online dating site for them—and the truth is, we found that online dating sites are pretty fun. We looked at the features, user base, and pricing at each site. In addition we had two people, male and female, create profiles and write their own reviews for our "He Said/She Said" recommendations. These reviews offer a more personal take on the matches and the matchmaking process. So, check out our comparisons and reviews, and find out which site earned the "Lady's Choice" and "Guy's Choice" award. If you have more questions about online dating sites, their features, and online safety, check out our informative FAQ.

Online Dating

Updated 02-07-2012

Service Name: Cost/Month: Relationship Type: User Base*: Matching Method: Features: Bottom Line:
Chemistry.com$26.65/month

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Relationship Seekers14+ million singles;
44% male /
56% female
Automated matching based on personality test; no searchingGuided communication; email & IM; winks & nudges; see who's viewed you; Block UsersIntuitive matching system based on complementary personality types, best for those seeking committed relationships
Match.com$13.59/month

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Casual & Serious Daters20+ million singles;
49% male /
51% female
Search by age & location; custom search; keyword searchOpen communication; email & IM; winks & flirts; see who's viewed you; Text Alerts; Block UsersLarge and active group of users, intelligent matching system based largely on similar tastes and interests
eHarmony$16.56/mo

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Relationship Seekers20+ million singles;
43% male /
57% female
Automated matching based on personality test; no searchingGuided communication; email & IM; Block UsersEmphasis on guidance and deep connections, larger users base seeking committed relationships, some people are not accepted
ZooskFree standard membership;
$12.49/mo for 6-month subscription

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Casual & Serious Daters17+ million singlesZoosk's Scientific Matchmaking Service sends you matches to anonymously vote up or downCreate profile; browse profiles; send winks; contact matches; read messages; send giftsFun and playful; great social features; premium features somewhat available without a subscription
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PerfectMatch.com$24.98/month

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Relationship Seekers11 million singles;
45% male /
55% female
Matches suggested based on personality test; search by age & location; custom search; keyword searchOpen communication; email & IM; winks & flirtsDesigned for those seeking committed relationships, combines elements of matching and searching, personality test is less informative
FriendFinderGold: $11.99
Silver: $10.99
Casual & Serious Daters1.5+ million singles;
53% male/
47% female
Search filter called "Cupid"; Myers-Briggs personality testing; astrological compatibilityChatting, blogging, instant messaging, voice messaging, email; extensive profile information; point system Customizable experience, overwhelming & frustrating interface, best for people with flexible relationship goals and a lot of time on their hands
Lavalife100% free for all new members and signups in the U.S.

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Casual daters2 million singles;
60% male /
40% female
Search by age & location; custom searchOpen communication; email & IM; "virtual dating"; speed datingEmphasis on flirting and chatting, good for casual dating, slightly more explicit content, interface cluttered with ads
Date.com$9.99/month

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Casual Daters2 million singles;
57% males /
43% female
Matches occasionally suggested based on profile; search by age & location; custom search; keyword searchOpen communication; email & IM; ice breakers; virtual gifts; see who's viewed you; chat rooms; audio & video messagingVery basic service with instant messaging and chat rooms, best for casual dating, identical to Matchmaker.com
Service Name: Cost/Month: Relationship Type: User Base*: Matching Method:Features:Bottom Line:
SpeedDate12-Month: $15.95
6-Month: $26.95
Casual Daters1.7+ million singles;
more males than females
Private Matchmaker, but more focused on searching/chattingSite focused on five-minute chats; video chat and multiple chat windows; browsing and searching functionsConstant stream of speed dates, matchmaking "system" yields poor results, nonstop harassment to subscribe

*Quantcast Data used for male/female ratio and accurate as of April, 2010


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